Oct 14, 2010

CHRISTIAN LIFE GROUPS

FOCUS - A 4-6 week class for women meeting 10:00 a.m. Saturday mornings begins THIS SATURDAY! October 16th. This will be an exercise/Bible study time focusing on topics within the areas of spirit, soul adn body. Healthy Snacks, Too! Contact Karen Clement: 970.641.0158 or praise@rmcmchurch.org for more information.

LIV YOUTH GROUP - Meeting Sunday nights from 7:00 - 8:30 pm through November 7th. LIV Youth Group is for students from 6th - 12th grade to gather together, talk about relevant issues and worship God together.

If you need a ride, directions or any other information, please contact youth pastor Annie Callahan or Duncan Callahan @ youth@rmcmchurch.org

Join us for a Wii game night October 22nd at 6:30 pm!


MEN'S GROUP Gifford Jaurugui is leading the Men's Group - Tuesdays @ 6:30 p.m. at RMCM.

OUTREACHES & EVENTS
SPECIAL GUESTS Pastors Marshall and Cindi Townsley, of the Believers Center of Albuquerque, will be ministering at RMCM in two special services, 9:30 am and 6 pm, on Sunday, October 24th. You don't want to miss them!

A 5K/10K Run/Walk to raise money and awareness to put an end to the crime of human trafficking. Join us October 30th in the Race for Freedom! Visit the race website for more information. There are registration sheets in Annie's "box" at the church office if you would like to register for this race with cash or a check.

FAMILY MATTERS BLOG IS ONLINE!
Some Family Matters questions:
How old should a child be before we start disciplining them and what are some ways to do that?
Sometimes around 1 1/2 you start with a firm no and pat on the hand/butt for safety issues. I am a firm believer of spanking on the bottom. Truly we all know when our child moves from the stage of not knowing he/she is doing something wrong to obviously choosing to disobey.... that is when you get going. I think we start too late on child training and that is a bad move.

We have children in various stages from teen down to toddler. Our oldest has begun using swear words. We just can't seem to get this under control.
You can do some behavior modification: Every time he says a swear word in your presence or the presence of the children then he puts some of his own money in a jar. 50 cents/word. It's immediate and he loses something tangible. Or you can have him do an extra chore on chore day, pick up his siblings rooms (if he is going to dirty the house, he can clean it!). You can be creative with this. I imagine he will stop using them when he has to pay for their use!

If you have questions you would like to see addressed on the blog, or feel would be helpful to other parents, please send those to family@rmcmchurch.org.